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​I'm a (mostly) gay transman (he/him) who has been a Pro Dom on and off since 2010. This isn’t just a job for me – BDSM is a lifestyle and conducts how I live my life. I’m heavily interested in the psychology of BDSM, particularly when it comes to how to safely use BDSM practices to work both with and through trauma, how both the sub and the Dominant are practicing radical vulnerability and how it offers a queering of care and trust that cannot be found in other interactions. I feel lucky that I have been able to use my experiences with BDSM, both professionally and personally, as a way to constantly self reflect, using that reflection to make changes in all aspects of my life. I am trauma informed and follow RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and CCCC (Caring, Communication, Consent, Caution). I class myself as both a Sadist and a Dom.

I strongly believe that Pro Dom sessions shouldn't be something that are thought of as a one-off experience but something that should be seen as a long-term decision, with the (professional) relationship that comes out of our interactions being valuable to both parties. Sessions with me don’t have to be a one-dimensional thing, they can be a journey of self-discovery that we go on together. I love to help subs experiment safely and find themselves in a way they wouldn't be able to otherwise. I love taking submissives to places that they have never been before both mentally and physically, playing with limits whilst honouring them and giving submissives a space to be the real them in an intense but safe and non-judgemental environment.

Whilst I do sometimes enjoy wearing leather, I’m not the kind of Dom that wears a lot of fetish gear, nor do I rely on it to construct the image of the Dominant – I believe that should come from within, I’m not cosplaying. You will most likely find me wearing Adidas sportswear or smart black clothing with trainers or black boots.

Depending on the context of the play we're engaging in, you can call me Sir, Daddy or Son.

Favourites
Music: Nine Inch Nails (Listen to my ‘soundtrack to a porno I never made’ playlist which I often like to listen to before or during sessions)
Film: Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?
Book: The Atrocity Exhibition by J.G. Ballard
Food: Korean
Scent: Bonfires

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